Transform Conflict, Rekindle Connection, and Build Unstoppable Love

You love your partner, but let’s be honest—sometimes it feels like you’re speaking completely different languages. Misunderstandings pile up, tension builds, and the connection that once felt effortless now feels strained.
Every relationship hits bumps along the way, but with the right tools and a little guidance, you can turn conflict into connection and reignite the spark that brought you together in the first place.

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  • Turn Conflict into Connection: Learn simple, proven strategies to navigate disagreements without damage, fostering deeper understanding and trust.
  • Stay Calm, Stay Connected: Master tools to keep conversations productive, even in heated moments, so you feel heard and respected.
  • Strengthen Your Bond: Discover how resolving conflicts effectively can bring you closer and create a foundation of lasting harmony.

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Everything you need to build a lasting love without feeling stuck or lost in the process.

Discover the skills to deepen your connection, improve communication, and rekindle lasting love.

  • Stronger Communication: Master the tools to express yourself and truly understand your partner.
  • Deeper Connection: Reignite emotional intimacy and feel closer than ever.
  • Effective Conflict Resolution: Turn disagreements into opportunities for growth.
  • Lasting Relationship Skills: Build habits and rituals that nurture love and trust over time.

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Clay and Sonja

A Love That Inspires the World

With 44 years of marriage and decades as relationship coaches, Clay and Sonja  bring over a passion for helping couples build thriving relationships.  They’ve worked with families in 16 countries, offering practical tools to deepen connection and heal communication challenges.

Their own journey inspired a desire to normalize seeking help before couples reach the point of deep wounding. They discovered simple strategies that transformed their relationship—helping them move from merely coexisting to truly supporting and uplifting each other.

May 24,2025

Heart-to-Heart: How to Talk About Anything with Your Spouse
4 Hour Online Live Workshop for Couples

Are you ready to transform your conversations and build deeper, more meaningful connections? Whether it’s a tough talk about a challenging topic, or navigating everyday communication, this online workshop will equip you with the tools to handle it all.
Using the Safe Conversations® Process, a proven method for creating connection and understanding, you'll learn:

  • How to confidently approach any conversation—no matter how tricky.
  • Techniques to stay calm, curious, and empathetic, even in heated moments.
  • Tools to reduce misunderstandings and strengthen trust in all your relationships.

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Additional Resources

Nurturing the Space Between

By nurturing this space between we create an environment that is safe and free of anxiety. Listen to discover ways to do that.

Utah Commission For Stronger Marriages

We had the honor of being interviewed for the Utah Commission for Stronger Marriages. We wanted to share this with you as it explains what we do very well and has helpful information.

Truly Connect in Marriage, Business, and Life

In this episode, we go into our own journey of understanding each other as well as how we can ultimately have the life we want with the people we want to be with. We dive into these skills and share new ways to communicate and relate.

Don't just take our word for it

See what our students have to say about our programs:

Trusted by over +3000 students worldwide

I think my new brain connections from the program have worked out really well. We often comment to each other that something has shifted in our relationship and we both feel a greater calmness and centeredness that helps us be able to talk about anything. This all happened so naturally and I don’t make a conscious effort to be anybody else than myself.

Theresa and John

I am so happy with this new version of myself and our relationship that is continually emerging. At a recent family gathering I noticed those conversations and interactions were easy and peaceful. It was very fruitful.

Theresa

The world is a better place because you’re here, And I am so deeply grateful for the life long impact you have made in my heart and life. I feel freedom to be myself in any situation and communicate my feelings without fear.

Sarah

I am grateful I am able to express myself rather than hold it all in. This has been wonderful for my emotional and physical health

Vaiba
LIberia

This has been so rewarding. I can listen more and not be anxious to talk. I can now be curious about others and not talk down to them.

Esau
Pastor in NY

Clay and Sonja are amazing. They specialize in meeting a person’s needs where they are. They have been a God send and I highly recommend them. We wouldn't have made it though without this program.

Cecily and Thomas

I highly recommend this program. Practicing the dialogues is improving the way I communicate with my partner. We now have effective tools to deal with anything that comes up.

Rochelle

We now communicate better, we understand each other more, we work as a team and not as enemies, and our love for each other is continuing to grow daily.

Lisa and Jacob

The information that we learn really impacts our marriage in a powerful way! Clay and Sonja have a genuine love to help other couples to have a happy marriage. The tough questions they ask will truly bless your marriage in the long run. We are so grateful for them and are so blessed.

Jacob