From Conflict to Connection: Rekindle the Love and Build a Relationship That Stands the Test of Time

Is your relationship feeling distant or stuck in a cycle of conflict? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to stay there. Discover the proven tools to reconnect, communicate, and create the love you’ve always wanted.

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Transform Your Relationship One Conversation at a Time

Discover the skills to deepen your connection, improve communication, and rekindle lasting love.

Stronger Communication

Learn proven techniques to express yourself clearly and listen with understanding.

Experience Deeper Connection

Rebuild emotional intimacy and feel closer than ever before.

Conflict Resolution Tools

Transform disagreements into opportunities for growth and connection.

Renewed Passion

Rekindle the spark and enjoy a more vibrant, loving relationship

Lasting Love Strategies

Create habits and rituals that strengthen your bond over time.

Empowered Partnership

Gain confidence in navigating challenges as a united team.

Stress-Free Connection

Replace tension and frustration with empathy, understanding, and ease.

Shared Vision

Align your goals and dreams to create a fulfilling future together.

Practical Life Skills

Gain tools to navigate stress, busy schedules, and everyday challenges without losing connection.

GET INSIDE Keep the Fire Burning

Transform your relationship with practical tools and powerful insights in this engaging course designed to deepen connection, build trust, and foster intimacy. Through a mix of interactive lessons, simple yet impactful communication techniques, and real-world strategies, you'll learn how to handle challenges together while creating a vision for a thriving partnership. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark, navigate life’s demands, or strengthen your bond, this course equips you to grow as a couple in a safe and supportive environment. Don’t wait—start building the relationship you’ve always wanted today!

Keep the Fire Burning Lesson Plan

Set the stage for your journey. Learn how to lay a strong foundation, set clear expectations, and explore where your relationship stands today and where you want it to grow.

Foster mutual respect for individuality. Discover how to identify and honor each other's boundaries, creating a space for both partners to thrive without compromising personal values.

Gain tools to recognize and manage your feelings, so you can address challenges without triggering reactive behaviors in yourself or your partner.

Master simple, effective communication. Practice easy-to-learn techniques to express yourself clearly and listen with understanding, laying the groundwork for a deeper connection.

Create a safe emotional environment. Build a relationship where both partners feel heard and valued, fostering an open space for any topic to be discussed with ease.

Deepen intimacy through meaningful connection. Explore how emotional and physical intimacy intersect, and learn how to create a fulfilling and passionate connection with your partner.

Overcome barriers to closeness. Identify and address the root causes of anger, fear, and mental games that may hinder your ability to build trust and intimacy.

Tackle real-world challenges as a team. Navigate stress, busyness, shared responsibilities, and financial concerns while maintaining unity and understanding in your partnership.

Create a shared vision for your future. Set relational goals and develop habits that align your daily actions with your long-term dreams, strengthening your bond as a team.

Clay and Sonja's Lessons
Introduction
Boundaries
Your Worth Cycle
Communication 101
Communication and Connection
Super Connected Sex
Blocks to Intimacy
Practical Issues Together
Moving Forward Together

“We were stuck in a cycle of frustration and disconnect. Every conversation seemed to end in an argument, and we felt more like roommates than partners. We loved each other but didn’t know how to bridge the gap. After taking the Keep the Fire Burning course, everything changed. We finally understand how to communicate without judgment, and we’ve reconnected on a deeper level. For the first time in years, we feel like a team, laughing, dreaming, and loving like we used to. This course gave us the tools to not only heal but to thrive in our relationship.”

Jessica & Michael

Married 12 years

Billy and Carol

Married 7 years

Shortly after the program we had a fire in our home and our life was completely changed. We are so thankful as we wouldn't have made it through this difficult time with out the tools of communication which allowed us to communicate honestly about our emotions while we listened and supported each other.

Susan

Married 9 years

“I went through the course by myself as my husband wasn’t into it. I learned things I had never learned before and they were easy to implement and they made a difference. I learned to communicate my feelings in a different way than I had before and noticed a huge shift in how I was heard and understood. We are going to go through it together and I am excited about what will happen.”

Justin and Maria

Married 3 years

We had struggled with bringing up past issues of addiction. Now we have a plan so these topics (and others) can bring us closer rather than cause conflict and mistrust.

Neecie and Jeffrey

Newlyweds (second marriage)

We knew many of these things but often didn't implement them. Learning and practicing them together with a plan made it easy to create new habits.
This has created a flow in working and connecting we didn't know was possible.

Lindsey and Jarod

Married 6 years

This program made it seem easy and fun to solve problems rather than argue and fight about things. We learned why we reacted to things and what to do about it.

Dave and Rachel

Married 12 years

"This was Amazing! We went from triggering each other all the time to being able to work together to solve our issues."

Clay and Sonja

Clay and Sonja Arnold bring over 25 years of coaching experience and a lifelong passion for helping couples build thriving relationships. As certified Safe Conversations® Senior Trainers and seasoned relational coaches, they have worked with couples and families in 16 countries, offering practical tools to foster connection and heal communication challenges. Their neuroscience-based approach integrates insights from brain health, personal development, and relational psychology, making their methods both effective and transformative.

Clay and Sonja’s own journey has fueled their deep desire to normalize getting help with relationship issues. They discovered simple, practical strategies that transformed their connection—helping them move from merely coexisting under one roof to truly supporting and uplifting each other. These tools not only strengthened their bond but also inspired them to share what they’ve learned with others, helping couples everywhere experience the same breakthroughs.


Clay and Sonja are thrilled to welcome you to this course and are excited to guide you on this journey of growth. Get ready to transform your relationship and discover the joy of a deeper, more fulfilling connection!

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You love your partner, but let’s be honest—sometimes it feels like you’re speaking completely different languages. Misunderstandings pile up, tension builds, and the connection that once felt effortless now feels strained. You’re not alone in this struggle—and the good news is, it doesn’t have to stay this way. Every relationship hits bumps along the way, but with the right tools and a little guidance, you can turn conflict into connection and reignite the spark that brought you together in the first place.

14-day Money Back Guarentee

We are confident in the quality of this course and we're happy to provide you with a refund if you're notsatisfied for any reason.

Everything you need to build a lasting love without feeling stuck or lost in the process.

  • Stronger Communication: Master the tools to express yourself and truly understand your partner.
  • Deeper Connection: Reignite emotional intimacy and feel closer than ever.
  • Effective Conflict Resolution: Turn disagreements into opportunities for growth.
  • Lasting Relationship Skills: Build habits and rituals that nurture love and trust over time

Can't wait to see you inside.

Clay and Sonja

Frequently Asked Questions

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What if I don’t have much time?”

We have designed the modules to be short and practical with no fluff.

You can do the lessons at your own pace and spend extra time on the ones that you really get into.

We have also designed it to give you quick wins. It is amazing how much time you have when you are not having to clean up misunderstandings.

The course is flexible and self-paced, with bite-sized lessons that fit into any schedule. Plus, you’ll have lifetime access, so you can revisit the material anytime.

How is this course different from free resources online?

Answer: 

Unlike free resources, this course is structured, comprehensive, and based on proven methodologies. You’ll also have access to expert guidance, interactive activities, and a supportive community to help you apply what you learn.


"Will this really work for me?"

Absolutely! 

The course is built on scientifically-backed strategies that have helped thousands of people. If you’re committed to applying what you learn, you’ll see positive changes in your relationships.


"I’m not sure it’s worth it. Can’t I just figure this out on my own?"

Think about the cost of not addressing your challenges—missed opportunities for connection, ongoing frustration, or even relationship breakdowns. This course equips you with the tools to create lasting positive change.

This course accelerates your learning with expert insights, practical tools, and real-world examples. You’ll avoid trial-and-error and see results faster.

"What if my partner or loved one isn’t interested?"

This course focuses on what you can control. Often, one person’s growth and improved communication skills can inspire positive changes in others. It only takes one person to start a ripple effect.

Who is this course for?

This course is for anyone who wants to improve their relationship and communication skills. 

Whether you're new to relationship-building tools or looking to deepen your skills, you'll find value.

It’s designed to meet you where you are and help you grow, no matter your starting point.

Ready to Ignite a New Spark in Your Relationship?

Don’t wait for the “perfect time”—the best time is now. Join us for the Keep the Fire Burning course and discover the tools to deepen your connection, strengthen your bond, and create a relationship that thrives.

Your next chapter starts here.

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